I really have no problem with different lifestyles, but there are things that make me angry for words.
Since today is a colleague returned from maternity leave. No, I do not mean parents time, but maternity leave. She got her second child 8 weeks, beginning today again.
I greeted properly and how this is the case among mothers, I asked the following questions: "How much do you work What responsibilities do you have now?"
(To the latter question, I should add that my colleague has a rather "traveling" host and her husband also travel a lot is.)
colleague: I work 80% and do the same as before. "
Crook: "Oh, really? How do you do with your children? "
colleague: " We have hired a nanny "
(if still quite ok I have no problem if someone working quickly. is because he likes to work, which must decide each for himself, as long as the children here are well and if a nanny is there, then the children are probably adequately supplied)
Crook. beautiful "Ah yes, then the children are so supplied. For me it would not matter. I would actually already be the mother of my daughter and I would hate to this position to a stranger. "
colleague: "why must the children's nanny Siezen too, so there will not involve close proximity."
I can think of the jaw on the table and no response.
Not that I think it for the closeness and love that one feels for a man makes a difference whether one name basis with the person or siezt, the children will build a relationship with the nanny, but what actually is the selfishness of the mother who pursues her career but at the same time their children no other caregiver begrudge?
I was the aunt never liked. Now I know why!
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